Texts: Genesis 50:15-21 and Matthew 18:21-35
Beloved
in Christ, it’s not easy dealing with other people, especially people who have
wronged you. Like the Apostle Peter, we may be willing to cut other people a
little slack, even when we feel the sting of the injury. But, come on, be
reasonable. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. And so
being willing to forgive someone seven times is unspeakably generous. For
Christ’s sake we might venture to do that. But then Christ says, “Not…seven
times, but seventy times seven.”
Joseph Forgives His Brothers Lithograph, 1907 |
That
is a tall order. But in today’s Old Testament reading we see someone who is
living by exactly that principle: Joseph forgives his brothers who at one point
contemplated murdering him, but instead sold him as a slave to some traders
passing by because it seemed more profitable than murder. Let’s be honest. We
have all been hurt by others and we have felt severe pain because of it. But
most of us have not experienced something on the scale of what Joseph
experienced. Therefore, the way that he forgave his brothers is worth thinking
about.
First
of all, we should note that his brothers had consciences that would give them
no rest. Time heals all wounds, we say. By the same token, we reckon, time
should lead us to forget about all the wrongs we have done over the years. But
it doesn’t work that way. If we are aware that God or one of our brothers or sisters
has something against us, it may bother us for years. Consider that it had been
thirty-nine years since his brothers plotted against Joseph. Indeed, it had
been seventeen years since they had seen Joseph again, been forgiven by him,
and invited by him to live in Egypt. For seventeen years Joseph had treated his
brothers with sheer kindness. He did everything to comfort them. But it hadn’t
assuaged their guilty conscience.
You
see, Joseph’s brothers assumed that he was being nice simply because he didn’t
want to treat them horribly while their father was still alive. As soon as
their father was dead, he would treat them as he really had wanted to all along.
They thought that even their father’s dying words would have little effect on
Joseph. They were willing to enslave themselves voluntarily if only that would
turn away his wrath and keep him from killing them.
When
your conscience accuses you, nothing will give you rest. Even the good things
God gives you won’t comfort you, because you assume that He is just softening
you up before He damns you for good. This is why we must pay careful attention
to the words of forgiveness that God speaks. He is not lying. He is not joking.
He is not talking idly about things. When He pronounces absolution upon you,
this is to be taken seriously. Even if your conscience is burdened, even if you
think that there are hundreds of people rightly against you, this is the God’s
honest truth: your guilt has been removed and you have been reconciled to God
for Christ’s sake.
Because
we ourselves have been forgiven by God for Christ’s sake and because we see
that others have been forgiven as well, we take seriously the idea that we need
to forgive others too. And so we come back to Joseph and ask: why was he so
willing to forgive his brothers? You can say that there are three
considerations he took to heart.
First,
he asked the question, “Am in the place of God?” Every time we
exact vengeance upon someone, we are acting in God’s place. You see, God is
holy. He is also our creator. Therefore, He has the right to act as judge.
Since He brought us into the world, He has the right to take us out of it. And
because He is holy, He doesn’t let personal feelings get in the way. Whatever
judgment He pronounces is righteous and fair.
But
when we judge, we don’t have the same qualifications. We didn’t create the
person we are judging and therefore we do not have the right to wish them to
cease to exist. Also, we are temperamental, self-serving people—and our justice
would be as well. Therefore, we do not have the right to prosecute mercilessly,
as if our intense examination of another person’s soul would be accurate and
true.
Now
I hope you understand that I am talking about how we deal with other people as
individuals. I am not talking about what happens in the law courts. After all,
God instituted government to administer a modicum of justice and to keep order
in society. And so a judge has rights to fine people, send them to prison, or
even to execute them. They should do so impartially and not because they wish
to carry out a vendetta against them. But today we are not talking about how
the courts of law treat people, but rather how ordinary people like you and me
interact with other people. We are not “in the place of God,” and
so we must be careful not to act as if we were.
The
next truth that Joseph considered was this: “[His brothers] meant evil
against [him].” Joseph forgave his brothers, but he was realistic about
what they had done. He didn’t say it was all a “misunderstanding.” He didn’t
call it an “accident.” He didn’t say that his brothers had had good intentions
but done things in a ham-handed way and so caused harm. No, he acknowledged
that they “meant evil.” It takes no effort to forgive someone who
has accidentally hurt you, who stepped on your toes because they didn’t see
you. It is also relatively easy to forgive someone when you realize that you
misunderstood their intentions or they misunderstood yours. Once you clarify
things, you see that they weren’t so bad and their offenses are easily
overlooked. But when people are doing things out of malice and spite, it is
much harder to forgive. But it is precisely those more difficult things that
need forgiveness rather than the more mundane things.
But
there is another truth that we have to keep in mind as we acknowledge the evil
that is done with evil intent all around us. Namely, while others may have “meant
evil,” “God [means] it for good.” In Joseph’s case, when he was sold as
a slave, it set in motion events that ended up saving not only his brothers’
lives later on, but the lives of the Egyptians and many neighboring peoples. It
is not always easy to see what good God intends to make out of the evil that
people plot. And probably the more horrible the evil, the less easy it is for
us to understand. But we know that the LORD God is in control of the entire
universe. And that means that ultimately even the wicked will serve the LORD’s
purpose. And if that is true, then it is easy to forgive people who aren’t all
that forgivable.
I
could stop the sermon there and say that Joseph is a fine model for us
Christians to follow. And that would be true. But as much as we Christians
admire the saints of both the Old and New Testaments, we love and think about
our Lord Jesus Christ above all else. And so it is useful for us to consider
how those three statements of Joseph would apply to the way that our Lord
forgives sins.
First,
Joseph had asked the question, “Am I in the place of God?”
Clearly, he wasn’t. It was not up to him to render the final judgment upon
humanity or even one individual. But Christ was not just “in the place of
God,” He was the Son of God in human flesh. And so He is perfectly
authorized to deal with sin. He has the right to condemn all who sin and to condemn
them for all eternity. But “God did not send his Son into the world to
condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through Him.”
If God wants to see the world free from His righteous condemnation, how much
more should we Christians love to see the same!
Next,
just as Joseph understood that his brothers had “meant evil against”
him, so our Lord understands the depth of our sin. If we had no sin—serious
sin—then we need no Savior—no serious Savior, at any rate. And Christ could
very well have stayed in heaven and left us to muddle along on our own. And
there is an increasing number of people, even self-professed Christians, who
wish that He had. They deny that breaking some of the Ten Commandments (such as
the commandments against adultery or lying) would be a serious sin or even a
sin at all.
But
our Lord knows better. We have “meant evil against” Him.
Fortunately, for us, He as “God meant it for good.” We crucified
Him because we didn’t like His meddling. But He turned that awful event into
something good, a way “that many people should be kept alive,”
not through some kind of famine (as in Joseph’s case) but for all eternity in
fellowship with God.
And
so, beloved in Christ, let us cherish the fact that we have a God who is more
forgiving than even Joseph was. And let us share that same forgiveness with
others. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
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